ADHD Couples Counselling

 

ADHD Couples Counselling offers talk therapy in a safe, guided conversation to help couples address challenges, heal emotional wounds, and create stronger relationships. Whether you’re facing everyday disagreements, deep-rooted issues, or life changes, couples therapy can offer invaluable insights and strategies to improve communication, resolve conflict, and foster mutual understanding.

Our expert ADHD couples therapist, Danielle Rabbat, a skilled psychotherapist specializing in couples and family therapy, is here to help guide you through the ups and downs of your relationship. Danielle’s approach combines psychotherapy expertise with empathy and a deep understanding of the emotional challenges that couples face. Together, we’ll help you create a healthy, fulfilling partnership.

Conflict? Rebuilding Connection and Trust

ADHD isn’t just about attention or focus — it affects how couples connect, communicate, and handle conflict. You might recognize patterns like:

  • One partner feeling overwhelmed or unheard

  • The other feeling criticized, micromanaged, or constantly “in trouble”

  • Emotional intensity that turns small disagreements into big arguments

  • Struggles with time, planning, or follow-through leading to resentment

  • Difficulty staying calm or “sticking with” tough conversations

 

These issues are real — and exhausting. But they’re also understandable and treatable with the right guidance.

ADHD Relationship Therapy

Relationship therapy goes beyond just romantic relationships—it can also help couples navigate complex issues related to family dynamics, stressors, and external pressures that affect their bond. Relationship therapy isn’t limited to married couples; it is a helpful option for anyone seeking to improve a significant relationship.

ADHD Couples Therapy - Impart Therapy

Some key areas where ADHD specific relationship therapy can make a difference include:

  • Personality conflicts – ADHD can create conflict, particularly when there is a lack of understanding between the couple. Through ADHD couples therapy, partners can learn to understand and appreciate these differences under the lens of how ADHD is impacting your relationship, while developing strategies to navigate them in a healthy way.
  • Psychoeducation and tools – Many times, partners need to understand how ADHD is manifesting for them and/or their partner, and how they can navigate the complexities it presents (hyperfocus, overstimulation, etc.). No ADHD person is the same, and what works for one partner, may not work for the other. Asu such, certain tools can help. 
  • PMDD Issues – For ADHD couples dealing with PMDD (Pre-Menstrual Dysphoric Disorder), relationship therapy can be an essential part of coping with the emotional toll it takes on both partners. There is a link between ADHD and PMDD, and those that suffer experience mood swings, irritability, and emotional distress, making communication and intimacy more challenging. We are experienced in working with individuals and couples dealing with PMDD, helping them navigate these challenges and improve their connection.

The Phases of Couples Counselling: A Step-by-Step Approach

At Impart Therapy, we understand that every relationship is unique, and the path to healing can vary. The couples counselling process generally follows three key phases: the initial consultation, ongoing therapy sessions, and long-term support.

The Free Initial Consultation: A 15-Minute Online Introduction

The first step in your journey is a free 15-minute online consultation with one of our experienced therapists. This introductory session allows us to get to know you and your partner, understand your concerns, and help determine whether couples counselling is the right fit for you. During this time, we’ll also discuss what to expect in future sessions, outline the therapy approach, and answer any questions you may have.

Ongoing Couples Counselling: Tailored Support for Your Relationship Needs

Once you’ve decided to proceed, the next phase involves regular ongoing couples counselling sessions. These sessions are designed to explore the underlying issues affecting your relationship, identify unhealthy patterns, and develop practical strategies to improve your connection. The frequency of these sessions depends on your needs—some couples choose to attend weekly or bi-weekly, while others may opt for less frequent “tune-up” sessions as they make progress.

Our therapists use evidence-based approaches such as DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) and CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) as well as Gottman to help couples create lasting change. These tools can teach you new ways to manage emotions, cope with stress, and improve communication.

One-Time Sessions or Tune-Ups: Maintaining a Healthy Relationship

Not all couples need long-term therapy. Some couples come to us for a one-time session to address a specific issue, while others may return for periodic “tune-ups” to check in on their progress. These sessions are flexible and can be adapted to your needs, whether you’re dealing with a temporary struggle or looking for a proactive approach to relationship maintenance.

Danielle Rabbat - Couples Therapy

At Impart Therapy, we are proud to have Danielle Rabbat, a skilled psychotherapist who specializes in couples therapy, as part of our team. 

As someone with ADHD herself, Danielle brings a deep understanding of couples therapy, helping partners overcome relationship challenges, improve communication, and strengthen emotional connections. 

With a compassionate approach and psychological expertise, she creates a safe and supportive environment for couples to explore their issues and work towards healing. 

Danielle is particularly adept at helping couples navigate ADHD complexities, including difficult life transitions, including those related to parenthood, grief, and unique challenges that often accompany ADHD menstruators, such as PMDD. 

Whether you’re facing everyday struggles or more complex issues, Danielle offers personalized, evidence-based therapy that respects your relationship’s unique dynamics

Take the First Step Toward Healing

If you’re ready to begin your journey toward a stronger, more fulfilling relationship, Impart Therapy is here to help. ADHD specific couples counselling, marriage counselling, and relationship therapy are all available to support you in creating the relationship with your partner you desire. Contact us today to schedule your free initial consultation and start building the connection and harmony you deserve.

Therapy that works with you

Are you ready to get on the path to a healthier you? Get in touch today to get started!