PMDD and Relationships: Tips to Help
When clients come to us for PMDD help, nine times out of ten, it is either mainly or partially due to the strain it puts on their relationships. During our luteal cycle, when we’re easily triggered, annoyed, and/or irritated, chances are we direct this at our closest and safest relationships: our significant others. This places […]
Riding the PMDD Wave: How ABC PLEASE Can Help
One day, I feel motivated, social, and ready to take on the world. The next, I wake up feeling drained, irritable, and overwhelmed by sadness for no clear reason. I second-guess everything—my job, my relationships, even my worth. Then, almost as if on cue, I suddenly feel like me again. My period starts, and I […]
PMDD Energy Budget
The PMDD Energy Budget: Managing Fatigue and Emotional Exhaustion Have you ever felt like even the smallest tasks drain you completely? Like your energy is a currency, and some days, you’re just plain broke? If you live with PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), chronic illness, depression, anxiety, or burnout, managing energy isn’t just a nice idea—it’s […]
PMDD DBT Skills – How DEAR MAN Can Help
When I worked in marketing, communication was key. While written communication was never an issue, verbal communication was extremely challenging during my luteal phase. There were times I’d sit in a boardroom, seething with anger, trying to hold it together, not even close to being able to convey my points successfully. I needed some DBT […]
PMDD and the Window of Tolerance
A few months ago, I was driving my kids home from the grocery store, playfully arguing over which song to play next on our Spotify account (my son wanted Kendrick Lemar; my daughter and I Taylor Swift). I was in early luteal, so my PMDD symptoms were mild. Before I realized what was happening, a […]
The 90-Second Rule and PMDD
I remember it so clearly: a gorgeous, sunny morning in spring, I was peacefully driving to work while listening to a quiz show on the radio. I wasn’t rushing, so when I didn’t turn fast enough, the driver behind me blasted his horn. Then gave me the finger. My blissful morning was ruined. I arrived […]
Using DBT Skill STOP For PMDD
Ericka first thought something was amiss when she was 17. Usually a bubbly, fun-loving person, about a week or so before her period, she felt horrible. She was depressed, tired, angry, with bouts of crying that sometimes took hours before she stopped. At 22 in her last year of university, during extremely stressful final exams, […]
Winter Blahs Hurting PMDD? Here’s 7 Things to Help
If you live in Canada, particularly Ontario, you’ve been inundated with snow these days. It’s one of the coldest, snowiest Februarys in recent memory, and while lovely for those of us who love to ski or snowshoe, it can wreak havoc on those of us with PMDD. In case you need a reminder, Premenstrual Dysphoric […]
Navigating PMDD During University Finals
It’s finals week. Empty coffee cups stack up, and deadlines feel like they’re piling on top of me. For most students, this is already a stressful time—papers to write, exams to cram for, and an overwhelming pressure to perform. But for women with PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), like myself, finals can feel even more intense […]
On Recognizing the Signs of PMDD
Isabel first came to me in October complaining about unbearable anxiety. She was in a high-profile corporate job, one that she gave upwards of 60 hours a week. Her relationship was suffering, and at times she felt like she hated her spouse. Earlier that week, she experienced a panic attack while driving – one so […]
